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Thrive with EQ Community EQ Assessment

Hi, I’m Nadja El Fertasi, a Licensed Emotional Intelligence Coach specializing in the EQ-i 2.0 model. If you’re here, you’re likely looking to grow, improve your relationships, and create a life that feels more aligned with who you truly are. That starts with emotional intelligence (EQ).

This free version of the EQ-i 2.0 Self-Assessment helps you explore 15 key areas of emotional intelligence, giving you insight into how you navigate emotions, relationships, and challenges. With this knowledge, you can lead with confidence, connection, and resilience.

 

Are you ready to unlock your emotional potential? Let’s dive in.

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Discover Your Personal Emotional Intelligence Blueprint

Through this assessment, you’ll identify your strengths, uncover areas for growth, and create a personal blueprint for enhancing your emotional intelligence. There are no right or wrong answers—just an opportunity to reflect and grow. 

Let’s dive in and explore the skills that shape the way you think, feel, and connect with the world around you. 🚀💡

Question 2 of 16

Which statement best reflects how you feel about yourself?

A

Self-Doubt – I often focus on what I lack rather than what I bring to the table. Sometimes, I wonder if I’m truly enough.

B

Strong Self-Belief – I believe in myself and my abilities. I own my achievements and feel proud of how far I’ve come.

C

Growing Confidence – I recognize my strengths and areas for growth. I know I have value, even if I don’t always feel confident.

Question 3 of 16

How do you feel about setting and achieving personal goals?

A

Driven & Growing – I actively seek out growth and push myself beyond my comfort zone. I’m always striving to become the best version of me.

B

Feeling Stuck – I feel like I’m just going through the motions without a real sense of purpose.

C

Making Progress – I set goals for myself and work toward them, but sometimes I doubt if I’m truly making progress.

Question 4 of 16

How well do you understand your own emotions?

A

Confused by My Feelings – Sometimes, I don’t even know why I feel the way I do—it’s like my emotions just happen to me.

B

Some Awareness – I can usually pinpoint what’s triggering my emotions, though I still struggle to manage them at times.

C

Emotionally Aware – I have a deep understanding of my emotional patterns. I know how to navigate my feelings with clarity and self-compassion.

Question 5 of 16

How comfortable are you expressing your emotions?

A

Open & Honest – I express myself openly and honestly, making sure my emotions are heard and understood without fear or hesitation.

B

Bottled Up – I keep my emotions inside because I don’t know how to express them—or I’m afraid to.

C

Cautious Opener – I share my feelings when I feel safe, but sometimes I hold back to avoid conflict or being misunderstood.

Question 6 of 16

How comfortable are you standing up for yourself?

A

Avoids Conflict – I struggle to speak up for myself and often stay quiet to avoid confrontation.

B

Working on It – I stand up for myself in most situations, but confrontation still makes me uneasy.

C

Confident Communicator – I confidently communicate my needs and boundaries while still respecting others.

Question 7 of 16

How much do you rely on your own judgment?

A

Seeks External Validation – I often look to others for approval or reassurance before making decisions.

B

Self-Reliant – I trust myself fully and make decisions based on what’s right for me, even if others disagree.

C

Finding My Voice – I take others’ opinions into account but ultimately trust my own judgment.

Question 8 of 16

How well do you understand and support other people’s emotions?

A

Disconnected – I find it hard to understand how others feel, so I don’t always know how to offer support.

B

Deeply Empathic – I deeply understand and connect with people’s emotions, offering meaningful support when they need it.

C

Caring but Unsure – I care about others and try to help, but sometimes I’m unsure what they really need.

Question 9 of 16

How engaged are you in contributing to your community?

A

Actively Involved – I actively seek ways to make a difference, knowing that even small actions can have a big impact.

B

Mostly Focused on Myself – I’m mostly focused on my own life and don’t really think about how I contribute to the bigger picture.

C

Helpful When I Can Be – I care about my community and help when I can, but I don’t always take the lead.

Question 10 of 16

How would you describe your personal relationships?

A

Strong & Supportive – I nurture strong, meaningful relationships based on trust, care, and mutual support.

B

Distant or Superficial – I struggle to form deep connections and often feel like my relationships are surface-level.

C

Maintaining Connections – I invest in relationships but sometimes find it hard to maintain closeness.

Question 11 of 16

How do you approach problems?

A

Takes It Step by Step – I try to tackle problems one step at a time, though I get stuck when things aren’t straightforward.

B

Easily Overwhelmed – When problems arise, I get overwhelmed and sometimes shut down instead of finding solutions.

C

Resilient & Strategic – I approach challenges with a clear mind, exploring creative and logical solutions until I resolve them.

Question 12 of 16

How well do you separate facts from emotions?

A

Easily Swayed by Emotions – Sometimes, I let my emotions or assumptions distort how I see a situation.

B

Aware but Still Learning – I try to check the facts, but my feelings can still cloud my judgment at times.

C

Balanced Perspective – I stay grounded in reality, balancing facts with emotions to make sound decisions.

Question 13 of 16

How well do you manage impulsive reactions?

A

Acts on Emotion – When I’m upset, I react quickly—sometimes before I even realize what I’m doing.

B

Tries to Pause – I usually think before I act, but under stress, I can still be impulsive.

C

Thoughtful & Intentional – I pause, reflect, and respond thoughtfully, even in high-pressure situations.

Question 14 of 16

How well do you handle change?

A

Flexible & Adaptable – I embrace change with an open mind, seeing it as an opportunity to grow.

B

Adjusts with Some Discomfort – I can adjust when needed, but change still makes me uncomfortable at first.

C

Resistant to Change – I struggle with change and prefer to stick to what I know.

Question 15 of 16

How do you respond to stress?

A

Easily Overwhelmed – Stress overwhelms me, and I sometimes shut down when things feel too much.

B

Manages but Needs Support – I handle everyday stress well, but I need breaks or support when things get intense.

C

Calm Under Pressure – I stay composed and resourceful under pressure, using healthy coping strategies.

Question 16 of 16

How do you approach challenges and setbacks?

A

Hopeful & Forward-Thinking – I naturally look for opportunities in challenges and maintain hope for the future.

B

Expecting the Worst – I often expect the worst and find it hard to see the silver lining.

C

Trying to Stay Positive – I try to stay positive, but setbacks can still get me down.

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